Have you ever felt being loved? Well of course. You're loved by your parents, siblings if you have one, and your friends in school or friends from the neighborhood. But with the opposite sex is what I was pertaining to. I'm pretty sure we've all experienced falling for someone in the class during our childhood days. We can never forget the first boy/girl that we fell for. Some experienced being ignored by their crushes thinking they're good enough to impress them. The truth is you can never totally please everyone.
As a teenager, I can't say that I am already an experienced person when it comes to Love. And because I am still growing, I make mistakes, and the most important thing, I learn. And I think just like our life, relationships are battles. Just recently I lost one.
Yes, it is really heart breaking. It will make you realize things. Aside from realizing the happy moments you've spent together with that oh-so special One, It would make you realize how bad you were, and how bad ass you are when it comes to handling those things, considering that you're still young for things like that. You'll then realize your wrong doings (though realizing them won't make you feel any better). You know you can't do anything about it, just grow up and learn from it. Our partner as well, of course makes mistakes. We all know that, no relationship is perfect. Every relationships have flaws, which is good to know because it means that the relationship is working. Working, in a sense that both parties have own opinions, views or ideas that they share to each other for each of them to learn from it. But as humans, we get tired, we get confused, we cry, we suffer, we quit, we lose, we end it.
I believe that every creature, happenings, arguments, crimes, in this world has an ending. Do you agree with me? That ending, I think, is just the beginning because from that end we learn how to start again. No matter how hard it is to move your feet from the situation, you still have to accept the fact that the person you say those three-word sentence to, would never be there for you again the way he/she was there for you during the first week you said "Yes" to him. Both of you said good bye to the problems, the stresses, the commitments. Just never say good bye to being there for each other, maybe as friends. That's what mature people do. I don't agree with what most people say that exes can never be friends again. Because ONLY BITTER PEOPLE SAY THAT, "I CAN NEVER BE FRIENDS WITH MY EX". Not because you were hurt by him or her, but you must learn how to move on, I think. If people don't like you, then move on! If they don't have time for you, then look for the people who can alot their time only for you, It is that simple. Why do you still have to cry and slash your wrist showing people your emoish side? We only live once. We should make the most out of our lives. Never waste time for those people who can't appreciate your existence.
Some leave because they both want to, they're both tired, they both need to rest, and they both need to find themselves. However, you can still meet that special someone, someday, some time, and that time maybe, you can already prove yourselves to each other and say that you've grown already and can already handle things like 'relationships' like when both of you were still teenagers, that you've found yourselves, that you've both learned your lessons. You can finally tell that special person that "I'm never giving up on us again."
If both of you are really destined for each other, no matter what happen you will end up together because it's God's will. If things didn't go your way, don't be sad. You just have to realize that God has better plans for you.
YOLO!
-till the next post. <3
